Rules of Submission

 

In talking to a master or his friends; Sir, Sirs, Mr. or master are appropriate appellations.  Think of the protocols for military training... repetition will make it second nature.  Other boys may be referred to by name or as boy.  Simply put: You give respect to get respect.

Promptness - showing up and being on time for a scheduled session is important.  Do not presume to waste your master's time.

There are three goals of training: Obedience, Respect, and Service.  All boys are trained to those goals with the first being the cornerstone.  This may mean forgoing some of your own pleasure temporarily to satisfy a training point.  If you are unable to do this you may need to go and learn the benefits of patience and discipline in the larger world before committing yourself to training.  Bottoms seek their own pleasure; boys seek to be obedient.  The bottom in you must yield to the boy.

Pleasure is to be enjoyed when it comes.  You need not seek it.

If there is no contradictory reason, a boy should be naked in a master's presence...  A boy should also question a master as to a master's preferences for his boys' attire and strive to fulfill those preferences.

In a master's presence, submissive posing is appropriate, desirable, and expected... this may mean head down, arms behind your back, kneeling, or squatting.  Experiment to find the most natural compliant posture demonstrating your willingness to submit or ask your master to show you the proper stance.  {Keep in mind that your posing should not in any way interfere with a scene.}

Clarify prior to a session a master's preference for speaking during a session.  Some masters may require silence until you are spoken to in order to discipline you in mental restraint.

There are generally 3 types of sessions or combinations thereof: Training, Testing {Trial}, and Play.  If the situation is fitting, as in a free form play session, consider using seductive behavior/poses to please your master.  Contemplate poses to arouse desire without demanding attention.  Subtle visual cues to your sexual willingness will add spice to your service.  Careful listening to all instructions is an important trait.  You may repeat requests to make sure you have a clear understanding of the tasks you are assigned.

An concerns or reluctance to perform should be resolved outside of a training session.  {Limits also need to be set before the session starts.}  Declining an activity based on dislike of that activity generally is not permissible without adequate explanation.  A flat refusal with out explanation is grounds for dismissal from any further service.  First, attempt to convey your concerns prior to declining the activity (e.g.: Request a suspension of the activity for a moment to catch your breath, explain that you think you are near the limits of your pain tolerance, etc.).  COMMUNICATION IS REQUIRED OF YOU {AT ALL TIMES}.

Trainees are fully expected to participate actively in the tasks chosen for them.  Most of the time you will not be requested to participate in activities for which you have no interest but on those occasions where your limits are to be expanded you are to remember that this training comes at your request and to fulfill your desire to please a master.  This process entails building your endurance for things that are not perhaps in your current repertoire.  If you do not share that goal then you must rethink your commitment to training.

If in a case where you perceive a real or irreparable harm occurring to you, you may respectfully decline to participate further.  This will presumptively end a session unless a no decline clause has been requested or stipulated prior to the session.  Your safety is paramount; you have permission and a DUTY to do WHATEVER needs to be done to ensure it.

If you are accepted for regular service and are chosen to assist with the trainings of other submissives, you must demonstrate a sincere desire to help the master and steer yourself clear of sexual jealousy and possessiveness.  It is an attempt to build a sense of fraternity rather than just a hot but casual play.

Training out with masters, Dads, or even other boys MUST be cleared with your Training master first.  Remember your integrity no matter how tempting an offer may be.  A faithless boy is useless in a master's eyes and not worthy of further consideration.  Boys/pups are cherished and prized for their loyalty.  If you are loaned out it will be to Men or boys of Integrity to enhance your boyhood and who have a special appreciation for the gift that a boy is.  If you must get laid, bottom out if permitted, but anything related to BDSM activity needs clearance to insurance it fits with your Master's plans for your training.

Ultimately things change, if you feel you need to end training, as it no longer suits you, request to discontinue it.  Hopefully, you and your master will have sufficient rapport to have discussed the issues leading toward dissolution of the training partnership prior to reaching a breaking point.  It is a point of honor though not to make a unilateral decision to end without allowing your master his say.  Breaking up IS hard to do but then so is training and life.  Strive to be a boy of integrity despite the lack of it in the world.

Taken from Speedbumps.org   Items in { } are My additions.