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In talking to a master or his friends; Sir, Sirs, Mr. or master are appropriate
appellations. Think of the protocols for military training... repetition
will make it second nature. Other boys may be referred to by name or as
boy. Simply put: You give respect to get respect.
Promptness - showing up and being on time for a scheduled session is important.
Do not presume to waste your master's time.
There are three goals of training: Obedience, Respect, and Service. All
boys are trained to those goals with the first being the cornerstone. This
may mean forgoing some of your own pleasure temporarily to satisfy a training
point. If you are unable to do this you may need to go and learn the
benefits of patience and discipline in the larger world before committing
yourself to training. Bottoms seek their own pleasure; boys seek to be
obedient. The bottom in you must yield to the boy.
Pleasure is to be enjoyed when it comes. You need not seek it.
If there is no contradictory reason, a boy should be naked in a master's
presence... A boy should also question a master as to a master's
preferences for his boys' attire and strive to fulfill those preferences.
In a master's presence, submissive posing is appropriate,
desirable, and
expected... this may mean head down, arms behind your back, kneeling, or
squatting. Experiment to find the most natural compliant posture
demonstrating your willingness to submit or ask your master to show you the
proper stance. {Keep in mind that your posing should not in any way
interfere with a scene.}
Clarify prior to a session a master's preference for speaking during a session.
Some masters may require silence until you are spoken to in order to discipline
you in mental restraint.
There are generally 3 types of sessions or combinations thereof: Training,
Testing {Trial}, and Play. If the situation is fitting, as in a free form
play session, consider using seductive behavior/poses to please your master.
Contemplate poses to arouse desire without demanding attention. Subtle
visual cues to your sexual willingness will add spice to your service.
Careful listening to all instructions is an important trait. You may
repeat requests to make sure you have a clear understanding of the tasks you are
assigned.
An concerns or reluctance to perform should be resolved outside of a training
session. {Limits also need to be set before the session starts.}
Declining an activity based on dislike of that activity generally is not
permissible without adequate explanation. A flat refusal with out
explanation is grounds for dismissal from any further service. First,
attempt to convey your concerns prior to declining the activity (e.g.: Request a
suspension of the activity for a moment to catch your breath, explain that you
think you are near the limits of your pain tolerance, etc.). COMMUNICATION
IS REQUIRED OF YOU {AT ALL TIMES}.
Trainees are fully expected to participate actively in the tasks chosen for
them. Most of the time you will not be requested to participate in
activities for which you have no interest but on those occasions where your
limits are to be expanded you are to remember that this training comes at your
request and to fulfill your desire to please a master. This process
entails building your endurance for things that are not perhaps in your current
repertoire. If you do not share that goal then you must rethink your
commitment to training.
If in a case where you perceive a real or irreparable harm occurring to you, you
may respectfully decline to participate further. This will presumptively
end a session unless a no decline clause has been requested or stipulated prior
to the session. Your safety is paramount; you have permission and a DUTY
to do WHATEVER needs to be done to ensure it.
If you are accepted for regular service and are chosen to assist with the
trainings of other submissives, you must demonstrate a sincere desire to help
the master and steer yourself clear of sexual jealousy and possessiveness.
It is an attempt to build a sense of fraternity rather than just a hot but
casual play.
Training out with masters, Dads, or even other boys MUST be cleared with your
Training master first. Remember your integrity no matter how tempting an
offer may be. A faithless boy is useless in a master's eyes and not worthy
of further consideration. Boys/pups are cherished and prized for their
loyalty. If you are loaned out it will be to Men or boys of Integrity to
enhance your boyhood and who have a special appreciation for the gift that a boy
is. If you must get laid, bottom out if permitted, but anything related to
BDSM activity needs clearance to insurance it fits with your Master's plans for
your training.
Ultimately things change, if you feel you need to end training, as it no longer
suits you, request to discontinue it. Hopefully, you and your master will
have sufficient rapport to have discussed the issues leading toward dissolution
of the training partnership prior to reaching a breaking point. It is a
point of honor though not to make a unilateral decision to end without allowing
your master his say. Breaking up IS hard to do but then so is training and
life. Strive to be a boy of integrity despite the lack of it in the world.
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